Hi! I’ve only just recently discovered that any form of oral sex or even hugging with sexual hints is sinful in the eyes of the church. The moment I realised this I felt lost, confused and very sad. I am a Christian girl - I try to God’s will and I attend mass every Sunday. I’ve been with my fiance (who is also Christian) for four years. We love each other and we speak about everything to each other. We’ve just got engaged and our dream is to get married and start a family. However at the moment it is financially impossible as he still has a year left at University and we do not come from well to do families so we cannot marry soon. We never made love because we are firm against sex before marriage. However it is very difficult not to touch each other or give physical pleasure to each other. We talked through this together and agreed that we are physically loving each other by doing so. It did not happen at the spur of the moment but we had long discussions about it. Up till now we never felt that we were sinning precisely because we feel that we are made for each other. So now that I’ve read that we are sinning it feels like everything is crashing down on me. I don’t know what to do anymore…but I still feel that there is no evil in what we are doing. Please help us.
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